gasptambourines: gay-men: Absolut Vodka release a limited edition label free bottle to celebrate diversity and challenge Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender prejudice. socially conscious vodka? SIGN. ME. THE FUCK. UP. Marketing conscious vodka, aimed at a minority which suffers disproportionately from drinking problems. Socially conscious would be a very different thing.
When I counter this demonization of black males by insisting that gangsta rap...– bell hooks,”Gangsta Culture - Sexism and Misogyny: Who will take the rap?” (via wretchedoftheearth)
Country music always makes me feel like I’m about to get beaten up.
Ways to tell when people online are full of shit #342: Overly “calm” words like merely are used by people who’ve never actually said them aloud.
You know when you go from having sex with someone who likes it really really rough to having sex with someone who likes it much gentler, and its like…woah…all my compulsions are confused.
In this country American means white. Everybody else has to hyphenate.– Toni Morrison (via mangoachaar)
I was thinking today about how as part of one or more minority groups, you often need to live in big (and particular) cities to find a sense of your community. Just another expense to add to other disadvantages.
gaggin 4 a shag
Reminder: not everyone is able to communicate negative feelings properly during sex. Be aware and considerate at all times.
This video is a summary of why I hate Louis CK. Yes, I’m just a feminist kill joy who can’t take a joke. Stand up comedy is made up so thouroughly of people using misogyny and racism and homophobia in an “ok” way, in order to relate best to misogynist, racist, homophobic audiences.
So some radfems believe that gender is entirely socially constructed therefore we should abolish it and stick to the binary. But then they call trans people traitors and a mockery of women. Why would you blame people that you clearly think are the victims of patriarchy, and ignore any discrimination they encounter? What? Trying to wrap my head around this lack of compassion within their own...
I wanted to have sex with this one boy but then he turned out to be pro-life =’(
Images of heterosexual physical affection can trigger dysphoria and anxiety for me. I should just start a list.
i just want a man with a beard to fall in love with me for the week, ok
Having the time, resources and energy to create art is a privilege.
QUEERING THE GAME OF LIFE: queerandpresentdanger:... →
queerandpresentdanger: queerandpresentdanger: casual reminder that blogs that are nothing but sexualized pictures of naked thin white people are products of and a perpetuation of white supremacy, not revolutionary at all even if they present themselves as queer and are just downright fucking boring a lot of…
Sometimes, when I can, I think about all the anxiety triggers I experience throughout the day and I wonder how different life must be like without them.
When I was 14 I told a girl I had a crush on that I loved the film Amelie. She told me it was a chick flick, and shamed me for liking it, and said I was gay. I refused to watch Amelie for years after that, but even now, 12 years later, that moment we talked still triggers my anxiety and can keep me from sleeping. Homophobia + anxiety for teens. A special combination. I hope that helps to...
cisprivilegeis: Cis privilege is: never being told your gender “isn’t real” or “is just a phase.”
I’m just taking a minute to repost some of my Hugged posts here. Self promoting. Shamelessly.
OK, what? Benedict Cumberbatch is playing Khan, who is meant to be Indian or at least a POC…and was born hundreds of years before the parallel universe split…so why would it make sense for him to suddenly be white…even if the original actor was Mexican and not Indian. I wonder were they just scared of having a brown man as the villian? And if so, how come they’re so...
Fuck your STRAIGHT CULTURE. IT FUCKS US OVER. Fuck your fatphobic, misogynistic, racist, oppressive, exclusive, standardized, privileged BULLSHIT. AND FUCK ALL OF YOU WHO THINK I DON’T HAVE REASONS TO BE ANGRY. There are so many experiences of so many different kinds of people you don’t understand.
I liked the frank discussion with the grandmother, but the “he’s gay so he likes weddings” joke was just wack. I don’t watch Game of Thrones for contemporary stereotypes.
Going to bed gives me anxiety. Dear god, please give me something not to be anxious over.
Its OK to love something that’s problematic. What’s bad is when instead of acknowledging the bad stuff, you make excuses for it. How’s that habit going to carry over into your everyday life?
How homonationalism works: 1) The Inclusion Argument: Sexual minorities...– Trending Homonationalism – Natalie Kouri-Towe (via hummussexual)
r u tryin to sejuice me
“Life can’t be that confusing,” I said, immediately before being born.