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Aug 29, 2014 / 1 note

I feel like such a creep downloading people’s OKCupid photos onto my phone, but if I don’t attach photos to people’s numbers, I’ll forget who they are!

Aug 29, 2014

It seems like everyone has a selfie with that big dirty mirror bean

Aug 29, 2014 / 15 notes

I went on a date last night with a hairy thin vegan bisexual whose seen every episode of doctor who ever. So basically me. My clone.

Aug 27, 2014 / 31 notes

Geez, how often does the average bisexual not come out to a gay person to save themselves the alienation and invalidation?

Aug 27, 2014 / 7 notes

When you just got fucked then walk down a flight of stairs.

Aug 26, 2014 / 8 notes

I don’t like being ahead of US time zones, I don’t know what the fuck they’re gonna get up to while I’m asleep.

Aug 26, 2014 / 87 notes

I don’t fall in love with genders, I fall in love with people…

…’s butts.

I never like pictures of me smiling, but I got a decent one, I think?  Will this make everyone fall in love with me on okcupid?
Aug 25, 2014 / 21 notes

I never like pictures of me smiling, but I got a decent one, I think?  Will this make everyone fall in love with me on okcupid?

Aug 22, 2014 / 6 notes

maester-aemon-targaryen said: Not knowing the plight of those who identify as gender queer, or who suffer gender dysphoria, would you say you fluctuate between feeling comfortable having a more feminine look vs a masculine one? (Referring to your post about your body hair).

I’ve heard people say “some days I feel like masculine, and some days I feel feminine”, and while I kind of relate, I think that’s overly simplified in a way that can be almost…misleading?

Sometimes, strangers assume I’m a woman.  I like that.  But with my body hair, people usually assume I’m a man.  I don’t like that.  So I have to weigh the options: do I want to constantly shave my incredibly hairy body (which can be painful and uncomfortable) and be occasionally seen as not-a-man, or let my body hair grow, and be pretty exclusively seen as a man?

I go back and forth.  Shaving takes time and energy that I haven’t been willing to spare recently.

Women sometimes have a lot of body hair.  The feminism in me tells me that’s beautiful and empowering.  And I believe it, and can see it in the mirror.  But do I have the emotional energy right now to be misgendered 100% of the time?  Or is 90% of the time really worth the effort?

The poetry of grindr
Aug 21, 2014 / 5 notes

The poetry of grindr